Theories i have about why people depend on relationships so much are so that they can feel important because thats something everybody wants to feel, to feel like you actually matter to people. Also to make their life more meaningful, because if people care for you and think you're important than you'll feel better with your life vs being completely alone.
Other times its also to use people, like us students use the teacher to get a better education, we use our parents for a place to live and food to eat, probably because using other people makes us feel like we have more power than we really do, and one thing people want is control in their life.
Friendship for me its like having a different set of families just without the same blood running through our veins. Friends are people who you have fun with and enjoy being with, who make you happy and your life more meaningful. Friends are people we use to entertain us, people to pass time with, just like a toy or a pet.
Lovers - they're being that are just like friends expect with lovers you can go pass the friendship level of doing things, like kissing, sex, which friends do too sometimes, though lovers have a different title like boyfriend/girlfriend. People use lovers as another way to release stress and also pass on their genes.
Also in relationships its kinda like christmas, you give someone something so they'll give you something back, because in a relationship both partners are benefitting from it, they make each other seem important, and show each other off to other people which makes both feel good and important because they're great enough to be shown off and because it shows they actually have friends and people that like them, because if you're all alone people usually pity loners for not having anyone, and other think that the loner must be extremely uncool and unimportant to not have people who want to be around them.
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